We all know that a long-distance relationship is scary. Many people connected to us may discourage it. We all believe that long-distance relationships are never going to work well. Many people even advise us not to take long-distance relationships seriously because it is anyway going to get broke. But the key to getting over this is trust in yourself, your love, and also, your partner.
There is a way to overcome the fears we get due to these long-distance relationships. Don’t Listen to other person’s judgment and rather I would say don’t seek the opinion of others over your long-distance relationship. Get that straight that your wrong opinion will hurt your partner and might ruin your well-going relationship. The technologies are so improved that you can even handle your long-distance relationship.
So let me give you some tips to maintain a long-distance relationship
1) Do not doubt
Do not unnecessarily doubt your boyfriend. Most of the time, this doubt factor becomes the reason for the breakups. Chill and trust your boyfriend rather, than trusting your love.
2) Don’t compare
Do not unnecessarily compare your relationship with other couples. This will make your boyfriend lose interest in you.
3) Don’t bore
Nope, I did not mean do not bore your boyfriend. I meant do not let your relationship turn boring. Let it stay living. Do not lose the communication or don’t let a lack of communication come between you two.
4) Give enough time
Give enough time to your boyfriend. Do not make him think that you are losing interest in him. Give him at least 1-2 hours of your day.
5) Not listening to his talks
Please do not do this to him. Listen and take interest in his talks. Give him enough time to say his things and listen to what he wants to say. This will make you a good listener and he will feel that there is someone out there who takes interest in his talks.
6) Stop believing in another person’s experience
I get no point why would you believe in another person’s experience? Do not judge your relationship based on what the other person went through. Remember they are different from you. Trust you, your boyfriend, and your love.
7) Do not ask for solutions
It’s your relationship and therefore, you should tackle all your problems by yourself. You know your problems better so solve them with him.
8) Do not be sticky
Do not communicate all the time and give him some space. Let him also have time for himself. A man who leaves his house will return home, right? So let him be on his own sometimes.
9) Make a timetable
Make a timetable so that you both can give each other some time. It’s very important because you both can’t talk to each other 24/7 right? You both have got a life too therefore, manage the time.
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10) Try to communicate
Try to communicate regularly but also remember to communicate creatively. A good night and good morning is a must. In addition to this send him some cute messages and letter kind of text messages. Send him your audios and videos greeting him. Make something creative.
11) Avoid disappointments
If you know that something you do will disappoint him, AVOID IT. Either you do not do it at all or tell him beforehand to avoid fights or ignorance.
12) Play together
You should try playing some games together this will make you both spend some time together and also boys kind of love to play games right? This will make you both laugh together.
13) Surprise visit
Surprise him with your visit but also make sure that it won’t cause him inconvenience.
14) Show him that you trust
What long-distance relationships lack is trust. We kind of assume that the person going far will cheat us and that is a wrong thing to assume. The person going far does not need to cheat. So do show your boy that you trust him. And as I said do trust your love for him and his love for you too.
15) Send him small gifts
Send him something he likes. Send him things he loves and shared with you. You can send him something which denotes your relationship with him.
16) Make him believe
Make him believe that you trust him and love him. Make him believe that you will always be there with him no matter how far he stays and also you are with him to cross all the obstacles that come your way.
17) Share details
Share all the details with him of the day. Also, don’t forget to ask him about his days. Share what you did all day and also, remember to be honest no matter what. Do not lie even a single time. Long-distance relationships are like “handle with care” boxes. So be careful.
18) Between calls
Once in a blue moon, you can just call him in the middle of a day just to make him feel that you miss him so much and couldn’t resist calling him. This will look cute and attractive. But also, remember that this should be done once in a blue moon.
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Remember that he also can be busy or stuck somewhere. A relationship will never be perfect if you don’t understand each other’s situation. Situations cannot always be normal or the way they used to be when he was near you right? So understand.
20) Distance doesn’t matter
Lastly, make your boyfriend believe that distance doesn’t matter if the love you both share is strong. And that’s true too. Distance should not matter if you both love each other unconditionally. Distance should just be a word for you two. Love sees no distance and sees just the two hearts which beats for each other. Okay, I know that’s filmy but it is true too if you believe in real love.